Personal Development I Am Not Your Mother: An Essay on Love, Self Worth and Boundaries 2021-01-112021-01-11by Julia LeungLeave a Comment on I Am Not Your Mother: An Essay on Love, Self Worth and Boundaries The women before me taught me different versions of femininity. In these months, I have acknowledged my own hand in the destruction of my self worth and my own shadows. When I say ‘no’, it is not a sentence for you to test my boundaries with.